Relationship 3-Minute Read
“Do You Make These 3 Mistakes In Your Marriage?”
Eduardo Conscientia (Guayaquil, EC)
Psychologist & Writer
Posted: September 3, 2023
Avoid these 3 Marriage Mistakes as soon as possible if your marriage is falling apart. It’s the difference between an impending divorce and saving your marriage
Mistake #1 – Do You Believe that you can talk your way out of a marriage crisis?
Like most people, you probably think that in order to save your marriage you need to communicate better with your partner
A lack of good communication is NOT what’s responsible for killing your marriage
Sometimes, it can even make things worse
When couples are in a crisis, they are often feeling angry, hurt, and frustrated. Instead of talking about their problems, couples may start to argue or blame each other
…This can only lead to more hurt and resentment…
What you need to do is to completely transform how you interact with your spouse and it works even if only one wants to save the marriage
By using what’s called “Immediate Impact Actions“
It’s not what we say that makes people change their perception about us, but what we do. Read until the end to learn more about this
Mistake #2 – Do you think you NEED your partner’s help to save your marriage?
You assume that unless your partner is also willing to put in the effort, it’s game over…
And it’s not your fault if you believe you do
The reality is that you don’t need your partner to be involved in the process of re-building your marriage
In many ways, it’s actually better if you take the first steps on your own – This gives you time to re-wire your spouse’s perception of you – which is the key to turn your toxic marriage to a lasting, caring relationship
There’s a video at the end of this page that will show you exactly how to rebuild attraction on a subconscious level before they become aware of what’s happening.
And it works even if your spouse has already mentally signed a divorce
Mistake #3 – are you continually reminding your spouse of all the problems that are plaguing your marriage?
When you focus on the problems in your marriage, it only install more negative feelings in your spouse’s mindset
Over time, as this happens more and more often…
You are accumulating negative interactions that will force your spouse to feel bitterness and resentment – making it even harder to solve marital issues
Just the thought of you floods their mind with negative emotions
What you need to do instead is suppress their negative memories and make them focus on the intimate experiences they enjoyed when your relationship was still in that ‘magical’ phase
Want to learn how? That’s coming next. Keep reading.
Solution #1 – “How To save my marriage even if I’m the only one who wants to?”
I’ve seen couples make things worse in marriage counseling by complaining, blaming, and not taking responsibility
I know because I was in a failing marriage too and I tried everything, but nothing worked
I was about to give up when I found a video about “immediate impact action” and suppressing negative emotions – and that was the first time I heard about the 3 marriage murdering mistakes
In fact, I realized I was making ALL the 3 mistakes. I was so busy talking that I was not aware I was destroying my marriage…
So after learning new ways to save my marriage, I decided to shut up and take positive actions even though my spouse wasn’t. I spent more time with her, was more supportive, and showed more appreciation
It took a few weeks, but my spouse started to reciprocate and our relationship improved
We saved our marriage and are happier than ever. It was the best investment I could do because now I feel safe and proud of my marriage. And I know you can do it too
Don’t give up on your marriage. There’s still hope – Try this first
here’s the Video that showed me the 3 marriage murdering mistakes and how to save my marriage
“Relationship Expert Reveals: Simple, Proven Ways To Bring Back The Spark That Works Even If Your Spouse Wants a Divorce”